The groom’s speech traditionally comes after the father of the bride’s speech, if the bride is not going to have giving her own speech, remember that your speech is given on her behalf as well.

The groom’s speech is also used to thank those who have contributed to the wedding either financially, (such as parents, if the father of the bride hasn’t already thanked them) or through their assistance (the best man, groomsmen, bridesmaids, usher, flower girls and pageboys etc.)

Your speech is an opportunity to reflect on the event that has brought the guests together on the day.  (Well, they turned up, so the least you could do is tell them why they’re there!).  You can do this by relating how you and your wife first met.  What went through your mind.  What about the early days.  First meal together.  The day you (or she) popped the question.  Get the message.

If you have been introduced by the MC, listen out for any dig or joke he has flung at you in his introduction.  Before you step up to speak, try to think of a nice comeback to get him with.  Character assassination of the groom is traditional at most weddings, so be prepared to give some back.  Defend yourself, man.

If someone could not attend the wedding due to illness, make sure you wish them a speedy recovery. 

Some grooms’ speeches also include a thank you to his own parents and/or any extra close family or friends who have helped him in his life.

Another idea that is sometimes used for the groom and the bride  is to make a speech together.  Of course, this involves a lot of cooperation.  A joint speech would involve all the elements of the groom’s speech contents and a choice from the bride’s speech as well.  It can really make a difference.

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